So are you saying Polly's Tulpa is an addiction? No! I don't think so this is like comparing apples and automobiles. Do you believe it is acceptable to have a Tulpa and be romantically involved with Him? Does this sound like anything God would approve of us doing? I am a gentle man, with no anger toward Polly personally (maybe toward the spirits ruling her life) but I do not put up with contentious spirits. Then again perhaps she is mentally challenged or ill, in which case I would see this differently, but devoting one's love to an entirely made up image in one's psyche is more than a bit strange.
When she first came on board she appeared to be seeking advice and help, asking what others thought, but has continuously denounced any attempt to reason, accept any advice, and has rejected all attempts to help from everyone (surely not everyone is a fundamentalist). Do you really think a genuine Spirit born follower of Martin Luther would see nothing wrong with this?