Brother you can not just start in the middle of a paragraph and post a single scripture trying to proof anything.
1Ti 3:1.. The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task.
1Ti 3:2.. Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, (ESV)
The word "anyone" it does not mean men, or male. It means anyone, or whosoever desires the office of overseer.
The part of the scripture that says, "he desires a noble task." has nothing to do with a "man, or male. The KJV says "he desires". Which means, "To have the affections directed toward something." The "he" is referring to "whosoever", or "anyone" who desires this office.
If that "whosoever", or "anyone" happens to be a married man who desire this office, then he must be the husband of one wife, and rule his house well. Does this mean that only married men can be a overseer? Paul was never married!! No where in scripture does it say women are excluded from this office, and women have and will continue to speak the Word of God as God calls them.
Now why on earth would you do this thing????
You choose the "translation" that says "ANYONE". You picked the one that meets your "WANTS" and I guess that is OK but the problem is you just did what you accused me of doing. I posted what the King James translation says and did so from the very beginning.
1 Timothy 3:1
King James Bible
"This
is a true saying,
If a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work."
American Standard
"It is a trustworthy statement:
if any man aspires to the office of overseer, it is a fine work he desires
to do".
Douay-Rheims Bible
"A faithful saying: if a
man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work."
English Revised Version
Faithful is the saying,
If a man seeketh the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work.
Webster's Bible Translation
This is a true saying,
If a man desireth the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work.
Then you asked this..........
"Does this mean that only married men can be a overseer.?
The Bible seems very clear to me.
1 Timothy 3:2 (ESV)
" Therefore an overseer must be above reproach,
the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach".
Personally I have always thought that an elder/deacon/pastor is to be a
MAN that the church and community can look up to as an example of Christ-likeness and godly leadership. If his divorce and/or remarriage situation detracts from this purpose, perhaps he should not serve in the position of elder/deacon/pastor. It is important to remember, though, that just because a man is disqualified from serving as an elder/deacon/pastor, he is still a valuable member of the body of Christ. Every Christian possesses spiritual gifts and is called to participate in edifying other believers with those gifts.
Then you said.................
"Paul was never married!! "
That actually has nothing to do with the question at hand !!! #1, most all scholars I know of believe that Paul was a widower. That being neither true or false, the bottom line is that there is no Bible fact anywhere that the Apostle Paul was ever a pastor. So that comment you had goes out the door.
Are you sure you want to continue this back and forth of Bible trivia on who is right and who is wrong. IT is not matter of right or wrong but simply do you accept the Bible directions or reject them.
Then you said..........
"No where in scripture does it say women are excluded from this office."
Heres one!.
1 Tim. 2:12-14..............
"But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but remain quiet. For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve. And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman being quite deceived, fell into transgression
".
Heres another one..!
1 Timothy 3:2 ............
"An overseer, then, must be above reproach,
the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach".
ooops, here is another one!
1 Timothy 3:8 ........
" Deacons likewise
must be men of dignity, not double-tongued, or addicted to much wine or fond of sordid gain,
Do you really want to go on with this back and forth my brother???? I think that we both have said all that needs to be said about this.