Friend, of course God doesn't force us to do anything. You and I both agree that He has granted us free will--and if we disobey, we have to take responsibility for that. Not quite sure how that part is relevant to this though.
Unless I am mistaken, it looks like you think that I believe faith is irrelevant to salvation. Not at all. Faith is necessary for salvation. But again, unless I am mistaken, it looks like you're suggesting that it is faith alone.
Our faith is what is necessary to receive grace. I cannot stress that enough. You've already references many verses that support this notion. However, I'm going to have to continue to disagree with you on the subject of faith alone. The Bible is very clear that faith alone is not justifiable. James 2:24 says "You see that a man is justified by works and not by faith alone." This is in fact the only place in the Bible that said the term "faith alone" -- where it says "not by faith alone."
It looks as though you're translation of Ephesians 2:8-9 is misinterpreted. "For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God." You've used the term "saving faith" as if to say God imparts faith rather that God imparts grace through our faith. One argument I've heard in the defense that of this notion is Philippians 1:29 where it says "For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe in him, but also to suffer for him" -- however, an earlier verse is ignored -- Philippians 1:27 which says "Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or only hear about you in my absence, I will know that you stand firm in the one Spirit, striving together as one for the faith of the gospel."
In Titus 1:16, it says "They profess to know God, but by
their deeds they deny
Him, being detestable and disobedient and worthless for any good deed."
But even more specifically, in James 2:14, it says "What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have works?
Can that faith save him?" This is why it is also followed up in Revelation 22:12 where it says "Behold, I am coming quickly, and My reward is with Me, to render to every man according to what he has done."
Friend, I used to hold your same position. The only problem is that it ends up discrediting the verses that express the importance of works--not just for the sake of witnessing, but for the sake of our own faith.
Each verse you provided I absolutely agree with. I dare not disagree with any verse in the Bible--it's all 100% true. Faith is the substance that fuels our salvation. But your statements is suggesting that these verses that emphasize where faith and works go hand in hand is either 1) not true, or 2) is true, but subjective.
A lot of people are uncomfortable with the word "works" because they think it's getting dangerously close to the concept of working your way into heaven. This is why Martin Luther added the word "allein" (German for 'alone') to Romans 3:28 in his translation and even almost completely removed the book of James. But of course people who subscribe to faith alone are throwing the baby out with the bathwater.
I suspect you and I won't see eye to eye on this one, but I will continue to look into your position on this as I hope you will look into mine--for the sake of truth and righteousness.