Brother, there is no way you can make the case that women can not speak in tongues in Church. How many where in the upper room when the Holy Ghost came filled them all? 120. Where there any women with them? Absolutely yes, even Mary the mother of Jesus was there, and they ALL spoke in tongues. When you have 120 gathered together would that be called a Church setting? Did the women speak in "tongues"? Yes, they all did.
Act 1:13.. And when they were come in, they went up into an upper room, where abode both Peter, and James, and John, and Andrew, Philip, and Thomas, Bartholomew, and Matthew, James the son of Alphaeus, and Simon Zelotes, and Judas the brother of James.
Act 1:14.. These all continued with one accord in prayer and supplication, with the women, and Mary the mother of Jesus, and with his brethren.
Women praying or prophesying in the Church weather by tongues and interpretation or not it makes no difference. Women can and do today speak in tongues in the Church!!.
1Co 11:5.. But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven.
Again, you are not getting it. Women here is referring to "wives" who are not to talk in Church while the service is going on. If they learn anything they are to ask their husbands when they get home.
1Co 14:34.. Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law.
1Co 14:35.. And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.
Understanding this is a no brainier...Its easy, it is as plain as day!!!