P90, I don't think my words were understood. It's always a good thing to remain on guard, especially for a married man to involve himself within engaging conversation or any physical contact with other women who are not family or spouse. Even with friends, I do not engage with their wives in hugs, handshakes or deep conversations. It protects them and myself.
When I've had issues with other men's wives, for example, one in particular sticking her nose where it didn't belong in my personal affairs and/or family life, and I said nothing to the woman, but rather went to her husband in private and let him deal with his wife. That actually happened with a highly opinionated wife of that other man commenting to me what SHE thought I was doing wrong with the raising of my kids.
It has always worked out for the best to let the husbands deal with their out-of-control, controlling wives. One of those men may as well have been wearing panties and a skirt, given his wife's dominance over him as a card-carrying, foaming-at-the-mouth feminist. Even that situation worked out well after he talked with her on the side about her invasive and rude comments about my raising of my own sons.
As the bearded dude in the video said, even when sitting next to a woman on a plane, I too have always refused to engage in conversation with them for anything other than sharing the Gospel, and to let her know that I am happily married with four kids. There is no need for her to know anything else from me, and I do not shake hands. With other men, that mostly happens only among friends and in fellowships.
So, I'm not saying that we all go around like walking, frozen pop sickles. I simply have adopted interpersonal conduct that protects against the enemy of our souls from getting a foothold with enticements. Does that make it more clear?
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