Guess I didn't see anyone not caring.
I will quickly admit that as a still-adjusting Reformed person, I am still confused about how to pray for the lost. I just keep doing what I did as an Arminian and hope it is not an affront yo G-d.
Jesus gave us a model as to how to pray for an unbeliever,
And in them is fulfilled the prophecy of Isaiah which said, "By hearing you shall hear and shall not understand; and seeing you shall see and shall not perceive; for this people's heart has become gross, and their ears are dull of hearing, and they have closed their eyes, lest at any time they should see with their eyes and hear with their ears and should understand with their heart, and should be converted, and I should heal them." Mat 13:14, 15
There is a progression in the life the person the Father has laid on our hearts to pray for:
1. We pray that their eyes be opened to their spiritual state, that they are sinners destined for Hell.
When we see and understand this to be taking place in their lives, because when Father starts to awaken someone out of their death sleep, they feel the need to become religious.
2. We pray that their ears be opened to hear the Gospel message.
3. Then we pray that their understanding be opened so that they can understand the Gospel and realize their need of salvation and salvation comes only in the name of Jesus Christ.
As we observe this progression in the persons life we also pray that the Lord would open their heart to receive Jesus,
And a certain woman named Lydia heard us, a seller of purple of the city of Thyatira, who worshiped God; whose heart the Lord opened, so that she attended to the things which were spoken by Paul. Acts 16:14
We must be careful in observing the progression and not rush it, even if it should go on for years, because just like in most premature human births the fetus or baby dies, so it is when the progression is rushed without allowing Father to do the work, hence the reason we see today so many that
used to go to church, the progression was rushed and it resulted in a still birth and if
we are responsible for it then Paul tells us their blood will be on our hands.
Prayer for the lost is a commitment, a commitment that comes from love, ...the Love of Christ constrains us, it is to be taken seriously, Jesus said, "No one comes to Me unless the Father draws them," if the Father lays on our hearts someone to pray for then we need to be faithful to that call, not afraid, faithful, whenever, day or night the Spirit prompts us to pray for that person.
Blessings,
Gene