Is this to me? Homosexuality is not a choice, just like being a pedophile is not a choice right? Because they would both fall under the same category. They both would say that they were born that way.
In my humble opinion, beloved, I really think you should actually read the bible, and pray to God for answers. I could show you a bunch of scripture, and prove the truth to you, but without a repented heart I don't think you would accept any of it.
What's the saying? You can lead a cow to water, but you can't make them drink.