Ok now I'm really confused. How could god be 2 people?? Ok so god got Mary pregnant and Jesus was born who was gods son because god impregnated her. So how is god the father and god the son? I really don't get this. If god wanted to come to earth as a human could he not have just come here in a human form himself?
The answer can be found in this verse."God is spirit" (John 4:24). Both God the Father and God the Son, Jesus, are distinct separate individuals who are one in Spirit, in the fullness of the Holy Spirit. God is also the Holy Spirit.
The believer also is one with God in the Holy Spirit, however the believer is subject to the will of God in the Spirit.
The oneness is shown in this scripture. "I am in my Father, and you are in me, and I am in you. (John 14:20).
Jesus prayed this, "My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message,
21that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me.
22I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one—
23I in them and you in me—so that they may be brought to complete unity. Then the world will know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me.
24“Father, I want those you have given me to be with me where I am, and to see my glory, the glory you have given me because you loved me before the creation of the world.
25“Righteous Father, though the world does not know you, I know you, and they know that you have sent me.
26I have made you
e known to them, and will continue to make you known in order that the love you have for me may be in them and that I myself may be in them (John 17:20-26).
This is being one in Spirit. As believers we walk in the Spirit producing fruit. This fruit is described in the bible as, "the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control" (Galatians 5:22-23).
What is so beautiful, so amazing is how God has made every believer in the Spirit. Each believer is special completely unique and beautiful, yet part of the whole. We are all unique special treasures that adds different blessing and beauty to the whole. We are all like notes in a beautiful piece of music, yet within each tone there are even variances (like loud, soft, fast, slow). Eternity will be filled with never ending creativity in an array of beauty upon beauty, all giving so all are blessed.
The bible explains Mary getting pregnant this way, "The angel answered, "The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called the Son of God" (Luke 1:36). This was a miraculous spiritual experience. Notice that Mary calls herself a bondslave of the Lord, for the bible says, "And Mary said, "Behold, the bondslave of the Lord; may it be done to me according to your word (Luke 1:38). Although she is the physical mother of Jesus, she is not the spiritual mother of Jesus. Mary was a virgin still. Her pregnancy came as a result of God the Father's faith and will for Jesus to be born as our sacrifice for sins. God did not just come to earth because Jesus had to go through what we did to be our sacrifice. Perfection is shown when someone stands the test against evil.
"For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are--yet he did not sin" (Hebrews 4:15).
"In bringing many sons and daughters to glory, it was fitting that God, for whom and through whom everything exists, should make the pioneer of their salvation perfect through what he suffered (Hebrews 2:10).
This is not implying that Jesus was imperfect (for Jesus never had any sin in him), rather it is showing that for perfection to be shown or known as perfection it has to be tested. It was the fact that he suffered in all the ways we do, but didn't sin that shows he was perfect. Isaiah 53 gives us a picture of how much he suffered for what our sins have done:
2 He grew up before him like a tender shoot, and like a root out of dry ground. He had no beauty or majesty to attract us to him, nothing in his appearance that we should desire him. 3 He was despised and rejected by men, a man of sorrows, and familiar with suffering. Like one from whom men hide their faces he was despised, and we esteemed him not. 4 Surely he took up our infirmities and carried our sorrows, yet we considered him stricken by God, smitten by him, and afflicted. 5 But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was upon him, and by his wounds we are healed. 6 We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us has turned to his own way; and the LORD has laid on him the iniquity of us all. 7 He was oppressed and afflicted, yet he did not open his mouth; he was led like a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before her shearers is silent, so he did not open his mouth. 8 By oppression and judgment he was taken away. And who can speak of his descendants? For he was cut off from the land of the living; for the transgression of my people he was stricken. 9 He was assigned a grave with the wicked, and with the rich in his death, though he had done no violence, nor was any deceit in his mouth. 10 Yet it was the LORD's will to crush him and cause him to suffer, and though the LORD makes his life a guilt offering.
However, this is also extremely beautiful in that Jesus loved us so much and God wanted us so much as his family that he did all this for us. This depth of God's love is eternal.
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Romans 9:11 (KJV) 
