In my experience, Christians try to avoid hate. I don't disagree that God hates sin. But you do not get to dictate what constitutes sin. You are NOT God.
God says what He hates. Do you believe Him or your own carnal sentiments? Either you believe God or you do not. It appears you do not.
Psalm 5:5 (NLT)
Therefore, the proud may not stand in your presence,
for you hate all who do evil.
Psalm 11:5 (NLT)
The Lord examines both the righteous and the wicked.
He hates those who love violence.
Leviticus 20:23 (NLT)
Do not live according to the customs of the people I am driving out before you. It is because they do these shameful things that I detest them.
Proverbs 6:16-19 (NLT)
There are six things the Lord hates—
no, seven things he detests:
17 haughty eyes,
a lying tongue,
hands that kill the innocent,
18 a heart that plots evil,
feet that race to do wrong,
19 a false witness who pours out lies,
a person who sows discord in a family.
Hosea 9:15 (NLT)
The Lord says, “All their wickedness began at Gilgal;
there I began to hate them.
I will drive them from my land
because of their evil actions.
I will love them no more
because all their leaders are rebels.
James 4:4 (NLT)
You adulterers! Don’t you realize that friendship with the world makes you an enemy of God? I say it again: If you want to be a friend of the world, you make yourself an enemy of God.