God gives us Strength through Death
Hello all
Have not been around lately. My ex mother in law passed away this past Saturday morning.
I got a text from my son Fri nite asking me to pray for her as she was not good .. she had been in ICU for a week.
I grabbed a pair of sweats , tshirt and toothbrush and headed out on the 2 1/2 hour drive. When I arrived at hospital everyone else had gone home except my x husband. I sent him home around 11:30 pm to sleep and I stayed with her. They gave me a chair to sleep in. My oldest son showed up a midnite and we had great conversation. He left and my nephew 21 years old showed up at 1 Am.. He has 2 kids already.. life is a mess and such.. anyway he told he he had been searching for God.. well.. God moved.. I grabbed a bible.. we chatted and then we prayed together and he accepted the Lord right there in the ICU room with his gram!
He left at 3 am.. the nurse woke me at 5 and had me call the family..
Her blood pressure was dropping .. she was on a vent..We called all family in they got to say their goodbyes, Pastor came and had a service with us, we then stepped out and they removed all tubes and such. Family went back in and she passed 20 min later. All kids and grandkids were with her when she took her last breath. My sister in law had gone to work after saying her goodbyes as she could not handle being there.
We left hospital and the rest of the week-end was crazy. I ended up taking x and his dad to the funeral home. Family came to the house. All family went to church Sun morning! Sun I was back to the funeral home with clothes, did obitiuary and all so much more. I sure did learn alot what happens .. also the Pastor wanted family to pick out scriptures for service.. well none know the bible.. so you got it. I picked out scripture for the first lesson, second lesson and the Psalm.. the family did help out picking the hymns.
I finally came home on Sunday, the funeral is Wed. but my niece called me at 10:30 last nite saying she got her bible out and was reading it. She is divorced 3 boys and then a daughter to her live in boyfriend.
Again it was not me, it was Christ in me that enabled me to go down and do all of this. Plus I witnessed to a woman at the rest stop on the way down.. But I will be honest when coming home, man was I wiped and had a few whoa is me moments. So through this death, a young man came to the Lord, many of the family are seeking God now and I am sure there is more to come.
I encourage all folks to talk to their family members what their wishes are when they pass, what saving measures they want and what funeral arrangements they want. No one had a clue in this case.. It was moment by moment, but the Lord got us through.
Please keep this family in prayer especially my 3 kids.
Hugs
Robin