You quote a lot words, but none of it is scriptural. You want what God says? I feel for you because you're calling the Holy Spirit a "magical voice" - that's just shameful. Then read this:1. Agreed.
2. Leaders open themselves up to judgment by being leaders. If you don't want to be judged don't be a pastor. Then Christians open themselves up to judgment according to scripture. If you don't want to be judged according to scripture don't call yoruself a Christian.
3. So only give if a magical voice from heaven tells you?
4. When God is our Father we are taken care of. Agreed.
As I said to Rav. When God blesses us financially, we are to honor Him with our riches. Not ourselves. We live for Him. We work as unto Him. The only reason we are on earth is to serve Him. Serving ourselves is forgiveable. We are still in the world. But not to the extent that any sane person will judge as self indulgent > selfless.
James 1:27 KJV - Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, [and] to keep himself unspotted from the world.
When's the last time you visited an orphanage or prision or widows? I can tell you when I have.