What a lovely way to begin Monday.
It really touches my heart ( as I'm sure it brings much RELIEF to yours ) to know that your autistic son will be cared for and employed so that he can achieve self-worth by doing something that is special. I remember working in a sheltered workshop with two different scenarios... One was supplying busy work.... they would take a bin of screws and mix them with other things and get the disabled clients to sort them out and then at the end of the day... they would simply go back in the bin. I suppose busy work does have some benefits but I never could wrap my brain around what a waste of time it was. There was no PRIDE in the work.
On the other hand... I have seen workshops for the disabled receive and actually deliver CONTRACT work that businesses pay for. Kentucky Fried Chicken used to send in their plastic cutlery... napkins... and individual salt and pepper packets... all of it went in a plastic bag and was sealed with a special machine ( the staff would do the sealing ). I have also seen some workshops build patio furniture including picnic tables.
This was what I trained for and got a Diploma in. I preferred the residential setting ( group homes ) over the work shops.. but in school... we had to experience each setting. The worst was the institutional residences. LARGE buildings with no quality of life for any of the residents. They were severely handicapped but they were also treated very poorly. I think in Ontario... NONE of those places exist anymore.
Anyways... I did not mean to go through all that. HA.
It's been a strange morning for me... as in REALLY BIZARRE. When I awoke... I felt the need to join the gym. I don't like gyms... I have not been thinking...... GEE... I should join the gym... but this morning... it was CLEAR as a bell... the gym is a few blocks from where I live and so... for some unknown reason... I went in and inquired about the price of a membership. Truly very reasonable and all kinds of machines... Boy oh boy.... I can walk... bike... climb stairs... and then I can do weights. HA. The young man seemed to know exactly how to handle me... and did not mind that I was not over the moon EXCITED to be "doing this". So.... I will start tomorrow morning... The gym is open at 5 am... and that is probably what sealed the deal. I'll probably leave here at 5 am to be there for 5:15.
I have about 20 pounds that I need to lose and also the winter months are not so active for me... This will be the solution to keeping myself in shape all year long. I think I will be happy about this as time goes on... Right now I am experiencing REMORSE. HAHAHA.
Anyways.... Happy Monday to all of you. Thanks for the wonderful post
RootedWithGod.
As always really enjoy as I am sure everyone does your healthy and amazing outlook on life.
My son, its and interesting situation is that he can physically do most things.
But can not get a job because he would have to have another person making sure he did things correct.
He volunteers at my Wifes works ( memory care) and its taken maybe 5 years going twice a week to do one think unsupervised.
And that is putting stock away on shelves when the food delivery comes in. He still can't do the Freezers due to rotations.
But at my sons work, his partner is literally standing next to him. She is am amazing person. A single mom and somewhere God has given her a gift. As she adapted right away to making my son feel welcomed. I officially met her a year ago when the plan for the business began.
So why it is working, it means more to him to be needed and wanted. My son has never dated. He is 29. Never had a job, can't get a license.
Will never take showers or hygiene thats needed. Unless instructed. Those with Autism and PDD, look at the tasks. But one at a time.
And they do not switch to something else easily. Its why my son reads and reads and reads. And is a master at video games.
I could probably write a book and Dementia and Autism as in my family these things have been entrenched for decades in our thought process.
Gyms, I admire the ability of discipline to do that. I have tried them over the years. But I am too active most times to find time to go LOL.
But I think ones health is super important to be on top of.
I enjoyed reading the work experience you shared. God seems to place us right where we are needed.
Why I know we are all sinners and fall short. I wish Sin did not also mean that we hurt others.
We as humans do things to each other that are despicable. I wish that we were better with each other.
I mean if we could cut the evil in the world just 25% imagine people helping and caring more about each other.
But through his Grace go we..