The Reason the Church is Floundering....

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Hello Pastor;

You ask a great question. There are two sides to this and will answer based on my personal experience, upside and downside of seminary.

There are those who are anointed with the gift of preaching and teaching, are self-studied and have the gift of people skills. I personally admire these ministers and find myself listening more to them. If they came across a circumstance that required wisdom, knowledge and a preparedness of how do handle or say, they are equipped!

Before I became a pastor I served as a deacon and later as an Elder. My former pastor encouraged me to take one course at seminary (Golden Gate Baptist Theological Seminary) to get some education under my belt.

Unlike ministers with hard knocks self study, I was too distracted, my attention span was short, so I had to attend class under a teacher. I didn't have the confidence to study and pass but through prayer and faith I did well. This encouraged me to take another course, then another until I graduated 3 times in 2008, 2015 and 2019.

Our seminary was one of the lowest cost of tuition. Being a Southern Baptist seminary and belonging to a Southern Baptist church I received a nice discount and am grateful to the Lord.

The one problem I learned from seminary were the students who gained much theological knowledge, but the school didn't teach people skills. So when the student was hired in their first pastoral ministry they were not prepared with the interpersonal skills needed in serving the needs of the congregation. One good friend of mine excelled in seminary but two years later when he was blessed with his first congregation, sadly the members had a hard time adjusting to him. They prayed but it didn't work out so he quit!, packed his bags and he and his wife moved to North Carolina.

The other problem I learned from seminary is not all theologians are called to the pastoral ministry. They may be led in the pastoral ministry but they treat it as a job career, not a calling to ministry.

In all my study, I am blessed to have gained knowledge at seminary, but I strive to pass what I learned to the other disciples and younger men and women seeking to serve the Lord.

God bless you, forgiven61 and your family.
I think that when on ehas been called by the Lord into formal ministry, have to find out if they have the heart of a Shepherd, as I felt lead into ministry, but was to minister as a teacher, not as a Pastor!
 
Hello Pastor;

You ask a great question. There are two sides to this and will answer based on my personal experience, upside and downside of seminary.

There are those who are anointed with the gift of preaching and teaching, are self-studied and have the gift of people skills. I personally admire these ministers and find myself listening more to them. If they came across a circumstance that required wisdom, knowledge and a preparedness of how do handle or say, they are equipped!

Before I became a pastor I served as a deacon and later as an Elder. My former pastor encouraged me to take one course at seminary (Golden Gate Baptist Theological Seminary) to get some education under my belt.

Unlike ministers with hard knocks self study, I was too distracted, my attention span was short, so I had to attend class under a teacher. I didn't have the confidence to study and pass but through prayer and faith I did well. This encouraged me to take another course, then another until I graduated 3 times in 2008, 2015 and 2019.

Our seminary was one of the lowest cost of tuition. Being a Southern Baptist seminary and belonging to a Southern Baptist church I received a nice discount and am grateful to the Lord.

The one problem I learned from seminary were the students who gained much theological knowledge, but the school didn't teach people skills. So when the student was hired in their first pastoral ministry they were not prepared with the interpersonal skills needed in serving the needs of the congregation. One good friend of mine excelled in seminary but two years later when he was blessed with his first congregation, sadly the members had a hard time adjusting to him. They prayed but it didn't work out so he quit!, packed his bags and he and his wife moved to North Carolina.

The other problem I learned from seminary is not all theologians are called to the pastoral ministry. They may be led in the pastoral ministry but they treat it as a job career, not a calling to ministry.

In all my study, I am blessed to have gained knowledge at seminary, but I strive to pass what I learned to the other disciples and younger men and women seeking to serve the Lord.

God bless you, forgiven61 and your family.

The parallels to your journey and mine are so similar that it is scary.

I was also serving as a deacon. Then an Adult Bible school teacher. My pastor who also lead my own Father to the Lord encouraged me to further my education.

My father was a 100% disable war veteran so I was able to use his exemption to attend a Baptist seminary. Later I was able to use my own VA benefit to extend that education so not only did I get a discount, I did not have to pay anything and in fact the VA paid me $250.00 a month to not work and attend school. That was a lot of money for a young married couple in 1960!!!!

Now rest of the story. many years later, in that same pastors church, I was once again teaching an Adult Bible study class and he had a stroke and died. The church then asked me to take his place so I found myself in the same pulpit of the man who lead my dad to Christ and encouraged me to seek a higher learning of God. Only God could have opened those doors and I have been there now for 25 years.

Unfortunately, there are two areas that no seminary does a good job of teaching their men.

1. Finances and how to budget and take care of the money given to the church.
2. How to deal with the personalities and problems of people.

#2 IMHO is the reason why so many men leave the ministry. They just do not know how to deal with people.
 
The parallels to your journey and mine are so similar that it is scary.

I was also serving as a deacon. Then an Adult Bible school teacher. My pastor who also lead my own Father to the Lord encouraged me to further my education.

My father was a 100% disable war veteran so I was able to use his exemption to attend a Baptist seminary. Later I was able to use my own VA benefit to extend that education so not only did I get a discount, I did not have to pay anything and in fact the VA paid me $250.00 a month to not work and attend school. That was a lot of money for a young married couple in 1960!!!!

Now rest of the story. many years later, in that same pastors church, I was once again teaching an Adult Bible study class and he had a stroke and died. The church then asked me to take his place so I found myself in the same pulpit of the man who lead my dad to Christ and encouraged me to seek a higher learning of God. Only God could have opened those doors and I have been there now for 25 years.

Unfortunately, there are two areas that no seminary does a good job of teaching their men.

1. Finances and how to budget and take care of the money given to the church.
2. How to deal with the personalities and problems of people.

#2 IMHO is the reason why so many men leave the ministry. They just do not know how to deal with people.
 
Read somewhere that the person who feels the call into the ministry needs to see that as being mainly dealing with people issues, as the ministry will be to help and enable people to get right with the Lord, and walking in his plans for their lives!
 
That money issue is why many times seems to be better to have a "real job" before the Pastorate, as one can save up to help cover costs to getting trained!
Know some mission boards requires their candidates to the mission field to be as debt free as possible...
 
I think that when on ehas been called by the Lord into formal ministry, have to find out if they have the heart of a Shepherd, as I felt lead into ministry, but was to minister as a teacher, not as a Pastor!
I'm not much of a Bingo player, but don't both a pastor and a teacher feed the sheep?

pastor (n.)
late 14c. (mid-13c. as a surname), "shepherd, one who has care of a flock or herd" (a sense now obsolete), also figurative, "spiritual guide, shepherd of souls, a Christian minister or clergyman," from Old French pastor, pastur "herdsman, shepherd" (12c.) and directly from Latin pastor "shepherd," from pastus, past participle of pascere "to lead to pasture, set to grazing, cause to eat," from PIE root *pa- "to feed; tend, guard, protect." Compare pasture. (Online Etymological Dictionary)
 
I think that when on ehas been called by the Lord into formal ministry, have to find out if they have the heart of a Shepherd, as I felt lead into ministry, but was to minister as a teacher, not as a Pastor!

Read somewhere that the person who feels the call into the ministry needs to see that as being mainly dealing with people issues, as the ministry will be to help and enable people to get right with the Lord, and walking in his plans for their lives!

That money issue is why many times seems to be better to have a "real job" before the Pastorate, as one can save up to help cover costs to getting trained!
Know some mission boards requires their candidates to the mission field to be as debt free as possible...

Hello Yeshua;

I remember you mentioned you teach and in these times we need Bible teachers, badly!

When I was in my early 30's my former pastor taught Bible study but one of our members was an anointed teacher. He enjoyed studying the Bible like it was a story, not a textbook. It was very clear our pastor knew this and stepped aside and made room for our brother who ended up teaching for many years.

Prior or during a called ministry it is good to have a job as the job teaches us to be responsible, accountable, ministering to our peers and managers, stewards of God's provisions and hard work is good.

I was bi-vocational (worked and pastored) in my early years until I retired from my job and became full time in the church. My salary dropped quite a bit but many of you will agree how amazing God is. He provided and still does.

I feel a Shepherd's heart is an important part of one's calling because people are like sheep - we're vulnerable, stink, wander about...But at the end of the day, when we can truly say we love what we do, serving people, then that is a good sign of our calling, be it a pastor, teacher, youth group, ushering, outreach.
 
The parallels to your journey and mine are so similar that it is scary. I was also serving as a deacon. Then an Adult Bible school teacher. My pastor who also lead my own Father to the Lord encouraged me to further my education. My father was a 100% disable war veteran so I was able to use his exemption to attend a Baptist seminary. Later I was able to use my own VA benefit to extend that education so not only did I get a discount, I did not have to pay anything and in fact the VA paid me $250.00 a month to not work and attend school. That was a lot of money for a young married couple in 1960!!!! Now rest of the story. many years later, in that same pastors church, I was once again teaching an Adult Bible study class and he had a stroke and died. The church then asked me to take his place so I found myself in the same pulpit of the man who lead my dad to Christ and encouraged me to seek a higher learning of God. Only God could have opened those doors and I have been there now for 25 years. Unfortunately, there are two areas that no seminary does a good job of teaching their men. 1. Finances and how to budget and take care of the money given to the church. 2. How to deal with the personalities and problems of people. #2 IMHO is the reason why so many men leave the ministry. They just do not know how to deal with people.

Hello Major;

What I blue-lighted is sad to say but so true. Perhaps this is why, though seminary was good, it does not to take the place of what God will do.

You were a married couple in 1960?
 
I'm not much of a Bingo player, but don't both a pastor and a teacher feed the sheep?

pastor (n.)
late 14c. (mid-13c. as a surname), "shepherd, one who has care of a flock or herd" (a sense now obsolete), also figurative, "spiritual guide, shepherd of souls, a Christian minister or clergyman," from Old French pastor, pastur "herdsman, shepherd" (12c.) and directly from Latin pastor "shepherd," from pastus, past participle of pascere "to lead to pasture, set to grazing, cause to eat," from PIE root *pa- "to feed; tend, guard, protect." Compare pasture. (Online Etymological Dictionary)
Teachers, in the local church, not in say Seminary, instruct others in truths of the scriptures, and should be modeling it, but Pastors are more responsible for having other matured and growing in their faith....
 
#2 IMHO is the reason why so many men leave the ministry. They just do not know how to deal with people.
amen so agree its hard to deal with so many personality's including our own . to be honest some you can not deal with unless you let them rule the roost see around here not all but lots of the old deacons think they rule every thing including the pastor . a Good God called deacon yes i think the office of Deacon should be a calling.. so often if you contribute major $$$$$ they make you a deacon. Deacon is a very important position very honorable so obvious you and cross roads and others been in the ministry back when the Church was the church
 
amen so agree its hard to deal with so many personality's including our own . to be honest some you can not deal with unless you let them rule the roost see around here not all but lots of the old deacons think they rule every thing including the pastor . a Good God called deacon yes i think the office of Deacon should be a calling.. so often if you contribute major $$$$$ they make you a deacon. Deacon is a very important position very honorable so obvious you and cross roads and others been in the ministry back when the Church was the church

Unfortunately that is true. The only way to fix that is to have one to one training classes with the deacons so that they understand what it is that they are to do.
 
Teachers, in the local church, not in say Seminary, instruct others in truths of the scriptures, and should be modeling it, but Pastors are more responsible for having other matured and growing in their faith....
I would respond that we grow and mature through proper teaching.
Mind you, I'm not arguing that we should have professors behind the Pulpit, but neither would I like to see a psychological babysitter filling the Pulpit as well.
 
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